Choices Change Your World

You are always at the cross roads of your life. Each moment is a turning point, a time of change that is governed by your decisions; in that brief instant that whatever you decided to do will in infinite ways change the course of your life forever. Every choice made is a pivotal crossroads that brings into life some form of continuous change, be that temporary, ongoing, or morphing into continuous scenarios of renewal.

Life in its essence is indeed a game, a game of chance that everyone has to participate in willingly or otherwise. With the correct step-by-step choices, made at various stages of life, the desired outcome can be created. Even seemingly insignificant choices can change the dynamics of destiny forever. There is no varying level of affect regarding choice, each carries the same actual power to change life drastically in a new direction.

While this may seem illogical, the gravity of any simple, flippant or quick decision also carries a similar intensity of life changing consequences as a carefully considered well thought out decision The power to change or impact your world reality rests solely within your own hands through your choices, desires, beliefs, thoughts, and actions.

Short Exerpt

The quality of your destiny is governed by your actions or inability to act, by your capacity to dream or not, by your desires or lack of desires.


There is a necessity to always have a clear vision, a desire, of what is required. If you can't figure out what you want in your mind's eye then what hope do you have of seeing what you want within reality.


It is what you think that makes you what you are. Always guard against your thoughts running wild and keep control over what you are thinking. You are Your thoughts.


The gravity of any simple, flippant or quick decision also carries a similar intensity of life changing consequences as a carefully considered well thought out decision. The power to change or impact your world reality rests solely within your own thoughts.


Actions Are Thoughts Brought To Life

Creating a destiny beyond life’s illusionary boundaries.

Everyone has their own specific personal boundaries in various forms with levels of effectiveness that were developed over time either consciously or subconsciously with the intention to function for a vast array of different purposes. These barriers act as a form of protection to help preserve personal integrity, they function as an avoidance or reaction mechanism for undesirable experiences, while providing the means to determine what can and what won't be allowed to interact within your circle of influence.

Attitudes and reactions are all indicators of personal boundaries that have been developed over time to address the various circumstances that arose, then are put into play by situational triggers to counteract current conditions that match past experiences. Personal boundaries can be legitimate and logical while others may seem ridiculous to others, it will depend on the perspective that people involved have.

There are limits to everyone's patience or ability to accept undesirable incidents, annoying transgressions or other unacceptable phenomena that may arise. Each person has different mechanisms to deal with unwelcome or unpleasant issues, some are extremely effective while others due to overheated emotions may be ineffectively deployed or not effectively address or resolve the situation at all.

There are those who may attempt to protect their specific boundaries fiercely even when these are not completely legitimate. Perhaps using psychological ploys, demands, justification or other techniques to protect their particular stance that they wish to preserve. If there are any constraints others try to infer to protect their particular inconsiderate actions, which encroach upon your rights then it's ideal to take whatever legal steps that are possible under the law. Pride is always an issue in such cases concerning any form of real or imagined territorial disputes which are possible to escalate from both sides involved, some perhaps taking a stronger or firmer stance than others depending on personality. Decent and reasonable people will always respond favorably as well as being flexible; those unreasonable personalities will try to justify their stance irrespective of how these incur upon other's personal rights. People in the wrong will always attempt to make some form of strong response to justify their actions while trying to negate any justified claims. The stronger or convoluted the response and excuse is the more likely the other party may be in the wrong, unsure of their standing or have a stance they wish to protect in some form.

There is no point setting any boundary or limitations that are then allowed to be transgressed due to the lack of resolve or inability to protect personal rights in a legal fashion. Abuse in any form that is challenging will take every weakness as an invitation to either continue any transgression or up the ante, on occasion quite considerably.

Testing the limits of endurance and patience is used by those who which to determine how far they can transgress as a means to evaluate the resolve of others to maintain set boundaries. Constantly surrendering by moving fixed limits to suit or accommodate transgressions is a sign of weakness and lack of resolve that people will always take advantage of and exploit to the maximum possible.

Control Your World

In life you win or lose, it's basically just like playing a game.

Life can be, as is for most people, like riding a Ferris wheel; where experiences continue constantly within a fixed repeatable cycle; at best with slight variations. Rather than living 365 days, one day is repeated 365 times. Such self-created circumstances keep certain personality types trapped within a specific life style; justifying their belief that it may not be possible to change what currently exists, that the way things are should be accepted; yet conversely a strong persistent focus for obtaining money, status, or power are what can enable the desired improvements or changes.

Life's initial start can lock most people into a certain life style or social grouping. Letting these restrictions impact or force you to accept them is unnecessary, as life has the potential to be whatever you wish it to be. The world in which you live is limited to specifics; like the time and places where you are at any particular moment. As these locations are generalized and constantly repeatable within a fixed cycle for most people, the direct personal variability of experiences of the world is confined to those places.

Adding variety, or spice, to the mix is basically an intuitive exercise that requires thought and physical energy to break out of a repetitive life cycle that has potential to confine and restrict intentions. Each new day is a brand-new chance to create a whole array of enjoyable and interesting experiences. With such potential to relish so many new and exciting opportunities, it is surely a waste and travesty not to do so.

The reasons or more aptly named excuses are many and varied that keep people locked within a specific life style. Whatever the excuse, the only thing that keeps experiences constant within a confined cycle is the lack of effort. That spark of an idea for change, that is backed by fixed actions to make intentions real are what is necessary to step beyond the mundane norm to experience a desired new reality.

'Out of the frying pan into the fire' mode of thought is what keeps some people trapped within their current circumstances, or way of life. Better the devil you know than the one you don't form of logic can keep the circle of friends limited to specific personality traits. One's own personality and attitudes does keep the people who are attracted into your circle limited to those who feel or think similar to yourself. Having the ability to be flexible, mimicking or matching others moods, behaviors and thought styles will open up a wider range of friends with varying personalities.

Materialistic desires are different from living a life of value. The quality of life varies drastically from person to person, some seek expensive physical objects, others may seek fame or fortune, others search out valuable experiences, and some look for ways to give or find a meaning to life. Knowing or understanding the meaning and dynamics of 'What is' then knowing how to manage change, forming the current status quo into the reality that is desired is the basis of what enables the shift in life's dynamics.

Some react to circumstances; yet the harnessing of what happens in such a way as to create then enable the changes necessary for life to be as you please are what makes all the difference to life's experiences. To have firm ideas of the particular life changes you wish to put into action is imperative; trusting fate to take care of you is definitely a lost cause. The only thing that fate is good for is to provide surprises that aren't always all that easy to manage or resolve fully.

Basically, life is about keeping your wits about you, understanding the dynamics that are going on around, and then doing your best to control these factors in such a way as to enable life to turn out just as you had envisioned. Take the responsibility to ensure that life turns out best, that your life experience is maximized; this will enable you to not only live the best life possible, but also be able to contribute to the ones you wish to help and give support.

While it takes vast resources to control the world, the control of your own specific world environment is really within your potential to achieve. How you choose to control your world, to what extent your desires are put into action, will determine whether your life will meet your wishes or not. The amount of thought and energy you exhort, the persistence of that effort, all comes to determine whether, and to what degree, what you want is what you actually get..

Life Is Like A Cocktail

Life offers the ability to pursue what catches your attention.

Reality with a dash of imagination, shaken but not stirred, please.

Life really is quite like a cocktail, each person adds the various component parts, then mixes them up to get their reality. Ingredients like imagination, your dreams, wishes, hopes, aspirations, ideas, et cetera can be included as seen fit; anything can be added to the melting pot as decided, any combination of things that are desirable should be included, then just mix it all up to see how things turn out.

Um. So much to choose from, but which ingredients to choose, perhaps something original would be more fun? If an actual cocktail was formulated like this then it's acceptability would literally be a case of hit or miss; perhaps drinkable, perhaps not; maybe in order to not want wasting it we drink it anyway rather than throwing it away and starting again from scratch as should be logical.

To get a good, drinkable cocktail it is easier to follow a formula at first, then gradually experiment until you can create an original drink using your own formula. Perhaps the finished drink is modeled on some other famous well-tried recipe; or perhaps the final creation is purely your own, or it could even be a bit of both. Yes, the right choice is something original, but should be drinkable; it does seem like this question may need some in-depth thought!

So it is with life; to follow the success of others is always the easiest route; there is potential to even follow the well-trodden path that society lays out for people to follow from cradle to grave. The road less traveled however, the one created by ourselves could be much harder, as we struggle to find the correct combination of factors to make the life that is truly desired.

But by avoiding the pain that may be involved with such a self-created life course there is the potential also that we'll miss the dance, the dance of life; those things that give life its mystery, adventure joy, excitement, and a sense of 'I did it my own way'. Having that slight twist of originality is what should give life the edge it needs! So, when you drink from the cup of life what will your drink be; the well tried recipe, or something original, exciting, with a twist of something totally brand new?

The Winds Of Time

Approach life as if you were an architect creating your days as you desire.

Life is indeed a dance with time, a brief moment in eternity were you are given the valuable opportunity to experience and interact with the physical realm that exists all around you, seen and unseen. Few really take the chance to fully enjoy and benefit of the potential experiences or the true meaning of life, living merely day by day in the hope that their desires, dreams, and wishes will become true, which without sufficient action is certainly over-optimistic.

You are most definitely the creature of your own creation, by ensuring your environment is one of growth rather than fear you can ensure your life's journey is the most rewarding and pleasing one possible. It is the expectations, the imagination of what will be, the desire to make those concepts become real, then belief in these concepts high potential that will determine how the endgame is devised or envisioned and finally plays out.

Life is undeniably a game of chance, having the right desires then pursuing them relentlessly will determine the type of life lived, how it all actually turns out. It is within the myriad of chances, opportunities, choices, and decisions that make life the gamble that it truly is. There is always the chance to choose through decisions concerning which opportunities to pursue, or those to be ignored or rejected. Intuition can provide the impetus to make certain careful decisions, or alternatively by relying just on the flippant choices of the moment that can render a potential opportunity irrelevant.

The impact of your actions is unchangeable, there is only one direction and that is forward, there is no going back to start over again to adjust what has already taken place. For this reason, it is wise to think carefully before doing anything minor or major, for everything you do has an outcome, a knock-on effect upon your entire destiny. Time plays games with everyone to varying degrees, don't let time slip through your fingers without achieving the essence of your strong desires and persistent intuitive thoughts for what to pursue.

Life Wasn’t Meant To Be Difficult

Take care of every detail of your life, leaving no stone unturned.

Take care of every detail of your life, leaving no stone unturned.

Life is indeed a dance with time, a brief moment in eternity were you are given the valuable opportunity to experience and interact with the physical realm that exists all around you, seen and unseen. Few really take the chance to fully enjoy and benefit of the potential experiences or the true meaning of life, living merely day by day in the hope that their desires, dreams, and wishes will become true, which without sufficient action is certainly over-optimistic.

You are most definitely the creature of your own creation, by ensuring your environment is one of growth rather than fear you can ensure your life's journey is the most rewarding and pleasing one possible. It is the expectations, the imagination of what will be, the desire to make those concepts become real, then belief in these concepts high potential that will determine how the endgame is devised or envisioned and finally plays out.

Life is undeniably a game of chance, having the right desires then pursuing them relentlessly will determine the type of life lived, how it all actually turns out. It is within the myriad of chances, opportunities, choices, and decisions that make life the gamble that it truly is. There is always the chance to choose through decisions concerning which opportunities to pursue, or those to be ignored or rejected. Intuition can provide the impetus to make certain careful decisions, or alternatively by relying just on the flippant choices of the moment that can render a potential opportunity irrelevant.

The impact of your actions is unchangeable, there is only one direction and that is forward, there is no going back to start over again to adjust what has already taken place. For this reason, it is wise to think carefully before doing anything minor or major, for everything you do has an outcome, a knock-on effect upon your entire destiny. Time plays games with everyone to varying degrees, don't let time slip through your fingers without achieving the essence of your strong desires and persistent intuitive thoughts for what to pursue.

Create Your Own Reality

Your life is the result of the accumulated choices you have made.

As the master of your known universe you are in numerous ways the creator of the world that you come to perceive and understand; being able to make life play out however you may want it to. All it takes to achieve this is the focused effort to clearly imagine what you want, then through ceaseless desire, linked to the belief that those desires are legitimate will thereby enable what you pursue to become true. The six pillars of creation are; imagination, clearly defined focused thought, desires, positive expectations, belief, and persistence; combined these elements of thought are able to create in reality the things that you desire.

Actual reality is based solely upon desires that are given perspective through imagination, and then the credibility to be brought to life by the firm belief in them. You create life from the pieces of reality that you bring together like a jigsaw puzzle. No matter how difficult it may be to believe this, you do indeed create everything that you experience; it is a fact that all you perceive is actually of your own making. Many don't or can't fathom this understanding of creation, that each of us creates our own reality; that you do possess the power to make reality whatever you may wish it to be.

The quality of life is always governed by the effort you put into giving life quality and meaning. Many people live life as it comes, living day by day, following the tides of fate rather than creating their own destiny. You have the choice to either do nothing toward creating your future, let others decide your fate, or take full control of your life, not tomorrow or next week but now. In life you have the chance to control your experiences though your desires, which make it is possible to create a life that is worth living; that is packed full of rich and wonderful memories.

Life is fleeting, delicate in many ways; sometimes situations can change 180 degrees without any prior warning. Allowing fate to dictate your life is a major mistake, as you will never be really sure what direction you are going, with literally no ideas at all of how things will really work out. Only through continually imagining what is desired, then pursuing those things unceasingly, backed with the belief that those desires will become true can you have any idea what your future will hold. Unless care is taken others will try to control your life and your desires with their own imposed wishes; without due caution it is possible to end up doing the bidding of others, rather than following your own dreams.

In the modern world the trend is to be required to surrender your life choices more and more, sometimes for the supposed common good, giving autonomy over your destiny to others and society in general. Whenever free will is surrendered to others something precious is given away. Some people will tend to try to impose their influence in many ways, basically in order to get you to do something that is not for your benefit but in one way or another advantageous for themselves.

Avoid falling prey to the demands that others make upon you, especially if whatever they want is different from the choices or ideas that you wish to pursue, or serves no benefit to yourself or society. Always aim to follow your own path in life and not that of someone else; for if you follow the desires of others then in the long-term it will only lead to regrets and disappointment.

Life is the chance to take what opportunities are available then harness these to create a wonderful world, the best experience possible for yourselves as well as those you care for. The past can never be relived, therefore to avoid regrets only pursue the things that you wish for the future. On analysis, it will be surprising how others control much of your life. Everyone has numerous external influences impacting their life in various ways; therefore, it is critical to ensure these don't affect you immensely; always ensure to take sufficient care to reduce the impact of external forces upon you. Other people mostly have their own form of agendas to achieve something, but this doesn't mean that you need to follow them; you must always keep your own best interest at the forefront of anything that you do in life.



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